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Karen J Godfrey, diagnosed, Fall 2003

Karen’s Story
Like so many bladder cancer survivors, I first learned of this type of cancer when I was diagnosed in the fall of 2003. In retrospect, the symptoms of bladder cancer had been there since 1999, when my general practitioner had first found microscopic blood in my urine sample, but dismissed it as ‘normal’ for me.

I was diagnosed with stage 2 invasive cancer into the muscle wall of the bladder and it was recommended that my bladder be removed. Along with my urologist, I chose the Indiana Pouch. Today, I can say I am happy we made that choice. My quality of life is excellent. After the required healing and learning how to work with this new part of my body, my life is much the same as before bladder cancer. 

Karen’s Silver Lining in this Journey:

This episode in my life has given confirmation that life is a journey and that the adage ‘Life is what happens while we’re busy making other plans’ is oh, so true. I’ve found the good life is not something we should strive to attain, but, it is the recognition that life is good and we have it here, now. Each day is a present. How we use it is up to us. 

Karen’s non-medical secret to survival?
I would tell others to be their own health advocate. Research for yourself, know your options. Encourage your medical team to work with you as an individual, not as an illness. Believe in yourself. Be your own best friend. Be kind to yourself as you would a friend in need. Know the disease is not who you are.